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Always searching - for new meaning, new friends, new passions, new ideas, new places. I’ve had 4 types of jobs and have lived in 4 different cities since I graduated college in 2013. To me, soul searching = growth.

Like you Jeremy, I believe in the power of community and inspiration. Small comments and short conversations have changed my life.

Now I live in Denver with my fiancé, and I’m blessed with all the love I could ever imagine. I’m still searching, however, for how I can continue to grow and be a better man.

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Also, have you read “Beginners”? The “new”-ness you mention reminded me of the premise of the book - a lifetime of learning.

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“Our human essence lies not in arrival but being almost there.” I heard this in an interview with a famous poet named poet David Whyte. I think this sums it up. The challenge is knowing if you’re pursuing the right horizon.

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I think this is extremely accurate. Today’s Daily Stoic said, “it’s important for us to remember in our own journey to self-improvement: one never arrives.”

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No but I just added it to list. Thanks for the rec. Sounds very much up my alley

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“ Small comments and short conversations have changed my life.” Can’t love this enough, Andrew. Well said, sir.

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Man - that prompt covers all manner of sin... I think my story is I'm a dad, a husband, and a reformed careerist focussed on owning as much of my time as possible.

Also - I really miss live music too.

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“Reformed careerist”. I love that.

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I'll go first. Good morning from New York! I'm Jeremy. I'm a husband to one, a father of two girls named after towns in California. I'm a completer of streaks and I tend to say yes. I prefer sunrises to sunsets. I desperately miss live music and traveling with my family, two things I'm looking forward to doing this summer. I'm not a great writer. Heck, I'm not even a writer. I'm a math guy who can't add two numbers in his head who ended up in sales.

I believe in the power of community, the truth of accountability and the beauty of encouragement. I believe that we can all be better men. That's why I'm here.

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Live music makes me feel alive and not having it has been a disappointment over the last year.

What’s going to be your first concert?

Mine is Tame Impala in denver on July 30th.

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There’s something inherently magical about live music, isn’t there? Assuming I don’t snag tickets to something soon, I’ve got a three-day pass to Phish in Atlantic City on the beach. I don’t think I’ve been this excited for a show, let alone three shows, in a long time. The funny thing is the last show I saw was Trey Anastasio Band at the Capitol Theater two months before covid hit. So my pandemic will be bookended by Trey.

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Phish on the beach sounds amazing. I saw them up at SPAC back in 2012? What an incredible experience.

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I’ve seen them about a Baker’s Dozen times but most recently saw them at Bonnaroo in 2019 (they played Friday and Sunday, the same night as Brandi Carlile). They must have been incredible at SPAC!

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